
Understanding, Supporting, and Celebrating Every Unique Child
Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD) is a developmental condition that shapes the way a child experiences and interacts with the world around them. For parents and caregivers, gaining a deeper understanding of autism can be a transformative step toward creating a nurturing and supportive environment where children feel seen, valued, and celebrated for who they are. Here, we’ll explore what autism is, common signs in nursery-aged children, and practical ideas for supporting children with autism in a fun and engaging way. At Footsteps, we continuously strive to expand our knowledge of Special Educational Needs (SEN) to accommodate any children who may require extra support.
What is Autism?
Autism is a spectrum disorder, meaning it manifests differently in every individual. Some children with autism may excel in areas like music, art, or memory, while others may find social interactions more challenging. It’s important to remember that ASD is unique to each child (National Autistic Society, 2022). The World Health Organization (WHO) emphasises that early intervention can play a pivotal role in helping children with autism harness their strengths and manage challenges (WHO, 2021).
Children with autism may show a wide range of traits. These can include a heightened sensitivity to sensory inputs, a strong preference for routines, or an extraordinary attention to detail. Understanding and embracing these characteristics can create an environment where children feel safe to explore and learn.

Recognising the Signs of Autism in Nursery-Aged Children
Spotting the early signs of autism in nursery-aged children (typically ages 3-5) is crucial, as early support can make a significant difference. Some common signs to look out for include:
- Communication Differences: Limited spoken language, an unusual tone or pitch of voice, repeating specific phrases or words (known as echolalia), and difficulty making eye contact.
- Social Interaction Challenges: Struggling with pretend play, having difficulty understanding or expressing emotions, or showing little interest in peer interactions.
- Repetitive Behaviours: Repeating actions, such as hand-flapping, rocking, or lining up toys in a specific way.
- Sensitivity to Sensory Stimuli: Reacting strongly to certain sounds, lights, or textures, or conversely, showing little response to them at all.
It’s normal for young children to display unique behaviours, but if these traits are persistent or interfere with daily life, it’s worthwhile to consult a healthcare professional or specialist for further guidance.
How to Support Children with Autism at Home
Creating a positive and structured environment at home can be both fun and effective for children with autism. Here are some practical tips to try:
Visual schedules help children know what to expect and reduce anxiety around transitions. Colourful charts, picture boards, or even digital apps can help make daily routines predictable (National Autistic Society, 2022). Visuals are often more accessible for children with autism than verbal instructions.
Try this: Make a morning routine chart featuring simple illustrations of getting dressed, brushing teeth, and having breakfast. Your child can check off each step with a sticker or a smiley face, adding an element of fun and achievement.
Sensory play is a powerful way for children to engage with their environment in a safe and enjoyable manner. Activities that involve different textures, sounds, and lights can help children process sensory information more comfortably (Hughes et al., 2022).
Fun idea: Create a sensory box filled with items like textured toys, rice, beans, or sand. Include calming elements such as soft fabric or a bubble lamp for a soothing experience.
Play isn’t just for fun—it’s essential for developing social skills. Structured activities that involve turn-taking, role-playing, and sharing can help children with autism learn how to interact with others in a positive way (Early Years Alliance, 2022). Social stories or guided play scenarios can also provide great opportunities for practising these skills.
Tip: Engage in simple games like “Simon Says” or a cooperative building project with blocks, which can encourage children to work together and share.
Learning new skills or adapting to new routines takes time. It’s important to be patient and celebrate small achievements. Positive reinforcement—whether it’s a high-five, a sticker, or a cheer—can help children feel motivated and appreciated for their efforts (SEND Code of Practice, 2015).
Remember: Praising efforts as well as results helps build confidence and resilience. A simple “Well done!” or “You did a great job” can make a big difference in a child’s day.
Final Thoughts
Supporting children with autism is a journey that benefits from compassion, patience, and a sprinkle of fun. By creating an environment that celebrates each child’s unique way of learning, we can help them develop confidence and joy. With understanding, proactive strategies, and a positive approach, children with autism can thrive and show us just how wonderful and unique they truly are.
References
- National Autistic Society. (2022). Autism spectrum disorder: Understanding and support. Retrieved from https://www.autism.org.uk
- World Health Organization (WHO). (2021). Autism spectrum disorders. Retrieved from https://www.who.int
- Hughes, C., et al. (2022). Understanding the impact of sensory activities in early childhood. Retrieved from https://www.autismresearchcentre.com
- Early Years Alliance. (2022). Supporting children with special educational needs. Retrieved from https://www.eyalliance.org.uk
- SEND Code of Practice. (2015). Statutory guidance for organisations working with children and young people. Retrieved from https://www.gov.uk/government/publications/send-code-of-practice-0-to-25